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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Thank you for this heartfelt celebration Lor and Adam. I bet my dad is grinning somewhere in another dimension too, hearing a bit of his story told through his daughter, on this very special week. If you both happen to see a bizarre increase in 43’s in the coming week, it’s him. πŸ˜‚

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Lor's avatar

It is also a perfect week to post this, Adam. Not sure of the exact day, but Kimberly is celebrating a BIG, or I should say, a grand, birthday, all week long. I’m shouting, and singing (badly) HAPPY BIRTHDAY, KIMBERLY!πŸŽ‰πŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽˆπŸŽˆ

I am certain many people are celebrating with you!

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Grand is such a good word. And that’s how it felt, thanks in part (BIG part) to this stunning family over here on the stack. My god you’re all so beautiful it hurts.

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Jonathan Foster's avatar

Wow that was beautiful and powerful and utterly stripping. Amazing, thanks

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

β€œUtterly stripping” - - I’ve never heard that phrase before but it’s such a good one! Visceral, vulnerable, exposed.

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Jonathan Foster's avatar

I know! I just came up with it! Such a powerful piece of writing/reading Kimberly, you inspired off the cuff inventions :)

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Andrea Fisher's avatar

Ooooh Kimberly- this took my breath away - - and now, I just need to sit with it.

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

πŸ™ Sitting with it, in silence, is the best response.

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

I remember tearing up when I read this passage in your memoir last year, but hearing you read it aloud kind of broke me open. So beautiful.

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Gosh, this is really dear to hear Ben. I hear my own voice and it sounds all Fargo in my head. ;) As you know, reading our words is an entirely different experience of sharing; perhaps even more vulnerable? Do you feel that way?

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Ben Wakeman's avatar

Well, reading fiction is a whole different bag than reading a page from your real life. The level of vulnerability you had to embrace for your memoir I’m not sure I’ll ever be capable of.

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

I’m good at dissociating.:)

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Deirdre Lewis's avatar

Wow that gave me chills!

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Good ol' bodily response. Love it! Thanks for listening Deirdre. ;)

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Anna Schott's avatar

This is great and I want to read more, but the link to 4/3 isn't working

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Adam Nathan's avatar

Fixed!

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

No biggie, thanks Adam!

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Oh I see it now, the last link on the post doesn't work. Not sure what's up with that! But the earlier one does. ;)

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

That's strange. Try again, I thought I removed that chapter from the paywall but maybe it didn't refresh. Here's the link again! https://open.substack.com/pub/unfixed/p/43-on-highway-43-543?r=3lmmp&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false

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Susie Mawhinney's avatar

Gulp... Kimberly hearing you read this passage which I remember so well, tares the threads that keep my heart in place. No words... ❣️

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Here here, let me spin some thread from hummingbird nests to stitch it back together. πŸ’›

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Emily Charlotte Powell's avatar

This is truly stunning Kimberly. I hope that there will be an audio version of your memoir, read by you πŸ’›βœ¨

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Thank you Emily. Yowza. That sounds daunting but it might be part of the publisher’s plan so I better get used to the idea.:)

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Rona Maynard's avatar

Beautiful, and beautifully read.

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Kimberly Warner's avatar

Thank you Rona. I appreciate your presence here!

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